Homesickness: My experience as a first-year international student at King's College London

Starting university in a new country was something I knew would be challenging, but I did not expect the whirlwind of emotions that came with it. I’m Benise, a 19-year-old from Paris, and up until this year, I had spent my entire life in the City of Light. I left behind a tight-knit group of friends, a familiar routine, and everything that made Paris feel like home.

Arriving in London was exciting yet intimidating. The city has an incredible energy – it is fast-paced, diverse, and always alive. I loved the idea of being here, but there was a part of me that was nervous. I worried about keeping up, about finding new friends, and about making this city feel like home. The first few weeks were tough; I missed my old life in Paris and all the familiar faces.

But, thankfully, everything started to shift once I allowed myself to interact with new people. I have made so many incredible friends here – other international students who understand the struggle of being away from home, as well as locals who have shown me the best of London. With these new friends, we have explored the city together, from late-night dinners in cozy pubs to sunny weekends in the parks. They have become my support system, my second family. Slowly, that feeling of being alone disappeared, replaced by a sense of belonging somewhere and joy.

And as the homesickness began to fade, I realised something comforting: my friends back home did not forget about me. We still keep in touch regularly, sharing updates, funny moments, and cheering each other on from afar. The love and support from Paris remain constant, reminding me that distance does not weaken real friendships. In fact, I now feel even closer to them. Each message, call, and update makes me more excited for when we will reunite – I know our time together will be even more special because of this distance.

Now, I feel happier than ever. London’s beauty has revealed itself to me, not just in its streets but in the friendships, the culture, and the memories I am creating every day. Homesickness was part of my journey, but it has taught me so much about resilience, friendship, and embracing change.

So, to anyone feeling anxious about leaving home: the unfamiliar may seem daunting at first, but it is where the most beautiful memories and connections are waiting to be made. Homesickness will pass, and you will realize that your friends back home are still cheering you on, excited to see how you are growing and thriving. And when you reunite, it will be as if no time has passed – only with even more stories to share. Take the leap – it’s worth it!